Do you feel like you fight about money constantly? If there is one issue that causes upset in your relationship, does it center around money issues? Do you wish that you could just figure out a winning strategy and make these fights a thing of the past? If that sounds like you, you're not alone. I got the following email from Malcolm, a frustrated reader, who's having a difficult time managing the finances and the marriage. Dear Amy and Andrew, Thanks for allowing me the chance to share my situation. My wife and I seem to be heading towards divorce if we don't make some big changes soon, but I can't see a way forward. We married 17 years ago and for the most part, we have been happy all that time. We have three children aged 3, 7 and 11, and we both work hard and have a good support network of friends and family members. I guess I could say the problems began to surface around 3-4 years ago, when the recession really started to bite here. My wife lost her job and has